are you fucking kidding me.
this is so fucking disrespectful and ignorant and selfish. tom daley’s coming out had nothing to do with harry or anyone else except himself. to turn it around and relate it to a few times harry has said the word someone when referencing a potential partner (when EVERY OTHER MEMBER OF THE BAND has also done this on multiple occasions as well as the fact harry has said phrases such as “what i looks for in a girl is…” in various interviews as well) is unfair to both of them, because tom’s life and decisions and experiences are not harry’s and vise versa. what you’re doing is turning tom’s personal experience into fodder for your own selfish interests. continuing to perpetuate this idea that harry is queer or gay or in a relationship with louis or WHATEVER by drawing these “parallels” because apparently life is a dan brown novel and we discover people’s sexuality by vague clues left in interviews and on tattoos is ridiculous and offensive and in the end hurtful to people like tom who have ACTUALLY DECIDED TO COME OUT. doing shit like this is for nobody’s benefit but your own, because you take pleasure out of imagining and labeling these people’s sexuality which is fine until you take it to be fact, in which case:
it’s not helpful. it’s not progressive. it’s not brave. it’s just rude and unfair and harmful.
Yes this is very disrespectful to both parties but it also disrespectful for you to assume that Harry is straight. People fail to remember that being heterosexual isn’t the default sexuality. And being homosexual isn’t anything to be shunned for.
Yes they may have crossed a line but it’s also crossing the line to assume someone’s sexuality in general.
So with that said everyone is disrespectful.